valerie obong

Condemnation    Sometimes when I look at myself I feel like someone with no purpose. I came from a family of four.my family is a close knit one who understands eachother feelings.me being the first brought so many responsibilities on me to attend to.As the first child am having a lot going on with me right now, in terms of relationship,education, and otherwise.my education is a torn to my flesh right now being in school and watching my younger once ahead of me is kind of bad and worse for me.cause,I easily get thoughts of committing suicide or even running away from the house.my siblings curse me not to even talk of my parents who look down on me most times and at any giving chance they get they compare me to my mates that are done with school or even married and have a stable job for themselves.this feeling is hard for me and my heart is heavy too heavy.my parents contributed to this cause,all I ever wanted was to study my dream course.mass communication was what I ever wan...

What really represents you?  Why do act the way you do? What have you actually achieved this few months  Are you a lady doubts herself? Do you really believe in self understanding?            All this questions are asked everyday by our youths who doubt there ability to think positive about thereselves.In our society today especially the youths of our time who have sinked into believing they cant achieve goals or they can't succumb to hardship and work there way out of it.All I want to say is that no matter how people look down on you or talk dirt about you to bring your success to the ground to make you feel your unwanted to the society,one thing you say to such negativity is No  A BIG NO. Self understanding is what makes you.your attitude, your personality,your zeal to overcome all doubts regarding your future plans that u have set aside for yourself. Sometimes what kills most individual is lack of self understanding. Know what yo...